One hundred years ago today . . . on the 29th day of September . . . in the year 1913 . . . Charlie Cook is laid to rest in an unmarked grave at the "Murry" Cemetery in Milam County, Texas . . . the informant on his death certificate is Charlie Seelke . . .
aka Pleasant Grove Cemetery . . . located four miles north of Rockdale in Milam County, Texas . . .
Sunday, September 29, 2013
1913 :: Burial of Charlie Cook
One hundred years ago today . . . on the 29th day of September . . . in the year 1913 . . . Charlie Cook is laid to rest in an unmarked grave at the "Murry" Cemetery in Milam County, Texas . . . the informant on his death certificate is Charlie Seelke . . .
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
1899 :: Just because it is carved in stone does NOT make it true!

It was the autumn of 1999, and I was on the phone with my Mom, listening to her read these words from her handwritten notes . . .She was lying across the axle dead, with her hair and clothing wound around the spindle of the buggy. . . .
As you can see in the tombstone rubbing shown here, it is "carved in stone" on this grave marker that Josephine W. Henry died on the 28th day of the month of January in the year 1899. This Josephine is a 2nd great-grandma to the Keeper of this genealoblog, and this date of death is the one that has been recorded in every family history record I have seen for generations in our family. I grew up hearing stories of how "our Josephine" died by being dragged to death by the hair of her head. I figured if there was even a kernel of truth in that story, then there should at least be a mention of it in the local newspaper. The little town in Central Texas where I grew up (and near where Josephine and her family lived in the last quarter of the 19th century) actually has copies of the area's 1899 newspapers available on microfilm at the local library. But no matter how many times I looked at that microfilm, I could find no mention whatsoever of Josephine's death in January or February of 1899.
Shortly before her 1899 death, Josephine and William and all of their living descendants posed for a family photo. Based on the babies that are present in the photo (born in March and September of 1898), as well as the babies that are not present in the photo (born in May and July of 1899), it is currently assumed that the image of this family gathering was captured sometime during the winter of 1898-1899 . . . March of 1899 would have marked their 35th wedding anniversary . . . mayhaps the gathering was to mark that occasion? . . .
One hundred years later . . .
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| 1998 Henry Reunion |
This geneablogger decided the centennial anniversary of the family gathering documented in that late 19th century family photo was the perfect time for a gathering of descendants of Josephine and Wm. P. Henry. There had been a few reunions during the preceding century, but none in quite a while. A mailing list was put together, invitations went out, multiple displays were assembled to showcase the family history of the descendants of Josephine and Wm. P. Henry, and on a stormy Saturday in the fall of the year 1998, approximately seventy-five of our kith 'n kin gathered at the Minerva Community Center in Milam County, Texas (very near where the ca. 1899 photo was taken). The reunion was a surprising success, so another year later, as I was preparing for the final such gathering of the 20th century . . .
In September of 1999 I received an email from a Henry cousin who had found a yellowed and crumbling newspaper clipping in some papers she inherited . . . about a 1931 Henry Reunion . . . and in that clipping was the following eye-opening statement . . .
October!?! Not January?!? . . . as carved in stone on her gravemarker . . . sooo . . . I called my Mom in our hometown, and prevailed upon her to make a trip to the local library for me, and lo and behold, right there in the grainy black and white of that microfilm were multiple newspaper accounts of the tragic death of our Josephine. I even found a mention of the tragedy in an 1899 edition of The Dallas Morning News. The multiple newspaper accounts of our Josephine's death all support the fact that she actually died on 28 October 1899, i.e., 10-28-1899 instead of 01-28-1899.
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Dallas Morning News
Dallas, Texas
Monday, October 30, 1899, page 4
A Very Sad Accident
Rockdale, Milam Co., Tex., 29 Oct – A very sad accident occurred about three miles north of Rockdale late yesterday [Saturday] afternoon in which Mrs. W. P. Henry, a lady about 60 years old lost her life. While driving home from her son’s her horse became frightened, ran away and smashed the buggy into kindling wood and when found Mrs. Henry was dead. It is supposed she was killed instantly. She leaves a husband, a large family of children and many friends to mourn her untimely death.
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The Rockdale Reporter
Rockdale, Texas
Wednesday, November 1, 1899
Deplorable Tragedy
Estimable Lady Meets Death Through an Accident
Last Saturday news reached Rockdale that Mrs. W. P. Henry had been killed by her horse running away with her.
When she was found between her home and that of George Banzoff, near the gate that leads to Dr. Isaac’s home, she was lying across the axle dead, with her hair and clothing wound around the spindle of the buggy.
One of the wheels was broken, and the rim of this broken wheel was found near the Murray school house, from which place she was dragged to where she was found.
The road indicated that the horse had been frightened and ran away. The wheel showed that the rim of the wheel had received a wrench and broke it loose from the spokes.
Her funeral took place Sunday at Murray school house, and a large procession of friends and relatives witnessed the ceremonies that consigned her body to its last repose.
She was the wife of W. P. Henry, one of our most substantial and upright farmers and the mother of five children, all grown [plus three who died young].
The Reporter extends sympathy to the bereaved family.
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Later Developments
Since the account of the tragic death of Mrs. W. P. Henry, on another page of this paper, was printed, we learned the following details in regard to her death.
As she was nearing the house of Geo. Banzhoff, her buggy ran into a wagon in which were two young men*, Messrs. Bradley and Jenkins.
This collision broke the rim off the wheel referred to in the other account, and evidently she was thrown out of the buggy at that time, as when found her head was caught between the wheel and the shaft, on the side opposite the broken wheel.
The road over which she went showed where her limbs had been dragged from the point where the collision occurred to the place where she was found.
The men state that she was in the buggy as far as they could see, but in this they were mistaken.
The buggy top was raised and it was impossible for them to see a person in the vehicle, and as they saw no one on the ground, they naturally supposed that she had not fallen out.
It is indeed unfortunate that these men did not follow her and rescue the body, when they found out the wheel had been broken.
While they doubtless thought she was unhurt, they should have gone to her and rendered what assistance seemed necessary.
Her neck was doubtless broken by the fall, and while they could not have saved her, they could have carried the body home when the accident happened.
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The Rockdale Reporter
Rockdale, Texas
Thursday, November 2, 2009
Accident - Mrs. W. P. Henry who has lived on the Cameron road, 3-miles from Rockdale for over 20-years left her son’s home on the Dr. A. C. Isaacs farm, about 3-miles beyond her home, to come home and as was her habit, she pushed her buggy animal, a gray mare that she has driven for several years, into a lope.
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She drove over the hill at the home of George Banzhaf and turning down the hill, Mr. Jenkins and Mr. Bradly were going from Rockdale to their home beyond Minerva in a light spring wagon, seeing the vehicle coming down the hill near them, pulled their team, a pair of young mules, to one side to give the road, but before the left wheel had cleared the track to the right fore wheel of Mrs. Henry’s buggy struck the hub of the wagon wheel and smashed it.
The woman had probably never seen the wagon or saw it too late to stop, and she was pitched foremost and fell with her head between the left fore wheel of the buggy and shafts and was so held that her hair was wound around the buggy hub and spindle and she was held there until some young man, met the buggy at the gate near the old Ferguson place, more than a half-mile this side of where the accident occurred.
She was dead when found as her neck was broken. She was buried at the Pleasant Grove cemetery Sunday evening. She leaves a husband and five grown children, three sons and two daughters, all married. Brother Henry does not blame the drivers of the wagon for the accident but thinks they should have ascertained the results before driving home.
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HENRY born Feb. 19, 1836 died Feb. 10, 1912 To angel from thy spirit grown Thy God hath claimed thee for His own FATHER |
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HENRY born May 10, 1842 died |
Her happy soul has
winged its way
To one pure,
bright eternal day
MOTHER
On this date in our family history . . .
the 28th day of October . . . in the year 1899 . . .
Josephine Wingfield Henry nee Davis is dragged to her death
by the hair of her head . . .
Just because it's carved in stone,
does NOT mean it's true!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Saturday, August 9, 2008
2008 :: Murray Cemetery Gets Historical Marker
108 attend dedication ceremony on Saturday
The Murray Cemetery, located on FM 487 North, held a dedication ceremony for its new historical marker.
Members of the Milam Historical Commission, American Legion Post 348, Milam Genealogical Society and Milam County Agent joined over 100 other guests and family members.
Cheryl Walker, extension agent, gave a history of George Banzhaf, who is interred in the cemetery and whose name appears on the marker. He was Milam’s first county agent and two of his grandsons were in attendance -- George Banzhaf and Glen Banzhaf.
A special program was presented for Civil War veterans. Refreshments and a time to visit grave sites and fellowship was appreciated by all in attendance.
Texas cities represented were Arlington, Austin, Belton, Big Lake, Bryan, Buckholts, Buda, Burnet, Cameron, Coleman, Dale, Dripping Springs, Flower Mound, Granbury, Hearne, Houston, Killeen, Kingsland, Madisonville, May, Mt. Pleasant, Onalaska, Post, Red Oak, San Angelo, Santa Anna, Seabrook, Sonora, Splendora, Taylor, Temple, Victoria, Waco, Yoakum and one visitor from Tucson, Arizona.
The raising of the flag was performed by Ronnie Faust, of the American Legion Post 348. Post Commander Art Free led the Pledge of Allegiance.
Floyd Brockenbush gave the invocation and Joy Graham gave the introduction of Cheryl Walker.
Velmaline Williams presented a history of the cemetery and she and Bud Williams unveiled the marker.
Jim Platt gave the benediction.
During the ceremony, grave markers were dedicated for Confederate Veterans, courtesy of the United Daughters of the Confederacy, Brenham Chapter, and Union Veterans markers, courtesy of Mary Alice Poe.
Murray Cemetery Association committee members include: John Elbert Fischer, Brockenbush (chairman), Donna McIrvin, Joy Graham, Lorene Wicker and Mary Alice Poe.
Officers are Al Trahan, president; Joy (Drummond) Kenjura, vice president; Texey (Whiteley) Goad, secretary; Mary Alice (Brockenbush) Poe, treasurer; Peggy (Lawrence) Fischer, perpetual care and mapping.
Rockdale Reporter, August 14, 2008
- Dedication Photos courtesy of James David Walker
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Murray Cemetery Historical Marker
Originally named Pleasant Grove Cemetery, this burial ground was at first associated with the Pleasant Grove community. The settlement's school was also once located on this site. By 1872, residents organized the Pleasant Grove Church, which met in the schoolhouse. Members later merged with a nearby congregation to form Mt. Zion Baptist Church, worshiping several miles east of here.
The current name for this cemetery can be traced to Madison Murray (1821-1897). A Civil War veteran who in the late 1860s moved here from Mississippi with two brothers. He became a community leader and educator, obtaining possession of the Pleasant Grove schoolhouse and operating it as a private institution. After Mt. Zion Baptist Church formed, this burial ground became known as Murray Cemetery.
The earliest marked grave here, that of Nancy Phillips, dates to 1856. Other notable burials include Joseph Hook, a Rockdale blacksmith, and George Banzhaf, a celebrated Milam County Agricultural Extension Agent. Also interred here are early area pioneers and veterans of conflicts dating to the Civil War. The cemetery features Woodmen of the World markers, vertical stones, curbing and interior fencing.
Although the Pleasant Grove community declined, the cemetery later also served the Bushdale and Bethlehem settlements. In 2004 the Murray Cemetery Association organized to care for the burial ground, which remains a memorial to the early settlers of Southwest Milam County.
Historic Texas Cemetery - 2007
Monday, December 11, 2006
1856 :: Earliest Marked Burial
150 years ago today . . . on the 11th day of December . . . in the year 1856 . . . Nancy Phillips nee French dies in Milam County, Texas . . . she is memorialized with a tombstone in the Murray Cemetery . . . her grave is the earliest marked burial in said cemetery . . .




